I’ve got both of those wheels and a CSW v2.5. I love the Mclaren wheel. I use it for any car that has flappy paddles, though, I’d like to eventually get a dedicated F1 wheel for F1. The handles, buttons and knobs all feel great as does the FFB. And yeah, it’s very light.
The Bimmer wheel feels good in the hand, but kinda like how an inert hunk o’ metal does. The FFB doesn’t feel quite as sharp or intense which I imagine is because of its extra weight as well as its larger diameter. I pretty much only use the Bimmer wheel when driving a car with an H-pattern shifter. If I was to do it over again, I’d still get the Mclaren wheel, but would probably have opted for the CS GT wheel for H-pattern shifter card despite its higher price specifically because it’s noticeably lighter. At this point, though, I wanna see what Podium wheels come out.
Oh and as for the vibration motors in the Bimmer wheel, I don’t think they have any significant impact. I prefer the sharper FFB over that.