See the 3 dots on the far right? Click that and disable "install automatically." Then click it and use "find in explorer." You can either delete everything or Just rename the folder to something like "backup_xxx" where "x" is the original name of the folder (something like patch_cars_vao.)
I hope this helps.
(Credit to Stereo as I had the same issue and didn't know what to do.)
Additionally I had to use the "disable for interior cameras" option in the Custom Shader Patch settings (under "Extra FX", section "ambient occlusion").
Without disabling this it still was too dark. Maybe it's because my TV doesn't support HDR.
Is there any chance to get the interior brightness somewhere between the dark version with the wrong cars VAO settings and the bright version without the cars VAO?
Thank you! I was going crazy trying to figure this out. Renamed the folder "vao-patches-cars" (so I could easily revert back if needed) and made a empty folder with same name, all is good.